Men are average lovers…

Of course the man of our dreams is far more than average in our eyes. But if you’re a man, in the bedroom are you desperate to please your ? Do you feel like just an average lover because you feel you’re  not delivering xxx orgasms?

In my experience of working with men, the feeling of being average in bed is becoming more usual.

Many men have told me that because they see in women’s magazines that women should be having multiple orgasms, they as men, start to feel like they’re not delivering what’s expected of them. And this of course puts them under pressure to perform

Here’s what I know: Today’s modern day man is a lot more giving between the sheets than ever before.

This kind of enthusiasm to please a woman makes a man a great lover in women’s eyes.

So gents, carry on being giving in bed…aim to please; but lose the obsession to deliver. And ladies, help your man to feel like the lover of the year by telling him how good he makes you feel.

And it goes without saying, don’t either of you forget about your own needs along the way. The trick to good sex is striking the balance between giving pleasure and receiving it.